The Day I Met Malala


October 11, 2013

Malala Yousafzai, at age sixteen, has captured the world’s attention. In an interview with The Daily Show’s Jon Stewart earlier this week, the Pakistani schoolgirl recalled wondering about the possibility of being killed by the Taliban.

“I started thinking about that, and I used to think that the Talib would come, and he would just kill me. But then I said, ‘If he comes, what would you do Malala?’ then I would reply to myself, ‘Malala, just take a shoe and hit him.’  But then I said, ‘If you hit a Talib with your shoe, then there would be no difference between you and the Talib. You must not treat others with cruelty and that much harshly, you must fight others but through peace and through dialogue and through education.’ Then I said, I will tell him how important education is and that ‘I even want education for your children as well.’ And I will tell him, ‘That’s what I want to tell you, now do what you want.’”

It’s hardly rhetoric. The Taliban did indeed come to kill her. She has continued to fight back with her greatest weapons — her mind and her voice. Malala’s definition of fighting back is to educate the world, hence the launch of The Malala Fund, which aims to build schools and get some of the 57 million children not currently in school the education they desperately need.

Chrysula, Malala and Ziauddin

I had the great honor of spending a few minutes with Malala and her father Ziauddin Yousafzai at last month’s Social Good Summit during UN Week. In a small ‘green room’ back stage at the 92nd Street Y, we spoke about her work, her family and her faith. Malala was poised, calm and thoughtful.

There are two things that struck me about this wonderful opportunity.

1.    We must never underestimate the power of a girl.
On this day of recognition for girls around the world, International Day of the Girl, it is more imperative than ever that we see girls for the solutions they are. When they are educated, they change entire nations. But with 1 in 7 girls in the world’s poorest countries married before they are 15 and complications from pregnancy and childbirth as the leading cause of death for girls between 15-19, we have significant problems to overcome.

As We Women cites, “there are 250 million young girls living in poverty, and approximately 50 percent of all sexual assaults are against girls aged 15 or younger.”

In contrast, Malala said of her experience, “The only thing being shot has changed in me is that weakness, hopelessness and fear has died.”

We simply must unlock that potential on a global scale. For every extra year of elementary school education a girl receives (above the mean) her eventual wages increase 10-20% and every extra year of secondary school translates to a 15-25% increase in average income according to the World Bank. But it’s much more than that. A literate mother’s children are more likely to survive past the age of five. A girl with basic education is three times less likely to contract HIV AIDS. Study after study demonstrates how educated girls contribute back to their families – both the ones they come from, and the ones they will create in the future.

2.    We need more fathers and male champions to speak out for girls.
We need mothers too, and all adults who believe in the power and capacity of children to change the world. But in cultures that are bound by tradition, male voices, especially those of fathers, are essential to break through generational patterns. As Ziauddin articulated last month at the Social Good Summit, “Most girls when they are born, their wings are clipped. I tried to not to clip her wings. I tried to set her free…I tried to make her free and independent. Now it’s up to her.”

Yousafzai family friend and Executive Director of the Malala Fund Shiza Shahid reinforced the need to work within local cultural frameworks put girls back in school. It’s not just literacy, but about giving girls their power, helping them live their lives and truly helping humanity forward in terms of unleashing the potential of girls across the world. “We here to create more Malala’s and give them their voices to create change.”

Malala’s drive and commitment is undeniable. And without taking one moment away from her incredible achievements, in the conservative environment of the Swat Valley were she was raised and where she was shot, none of it would be possible without the permission and example of her father.

There are hundreds of thousands of communities just like the Swat Valley around the world, including right here at home. And we need to encourage and make it acceptable for those fathers and other male voices to step up for all daughters.

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Malala’s closing remark was, “We will see every girl be educated.”

Yes Malala, we will.
Photo: R to L Ziauddin Yousafzai, Malala Yousafzai, Chrysula Winegar

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