Fatherhood Has Changed Who I Am

By Novak Djokovic

June 7, 2017

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Fatherhood has changed who I am, my relationship with Stefan has made me want to help all children realise their dreams.

Parenting is the most beautiful, and yet one of the hardest jobs we will ever have. Becoming a father for the first time to Stefan, also made me realise it is the most important job I will ever have. When Jelena and I found out we were expecting, I made a promise to myself and my unborn baby that I would love him unconditionally, provide him with safety and security and give him the best experiences and memories I could provide. I wanted Stefan to have a start in life, full of enriching moments and love, to help lay a strong foundation for his future.

I remember in our childbirth classes the teacher telling us this.  When you are pregnant and a new parent you will get a lot of advice.  You will hear a lot of things that have worked for others and they will be really passionate about what they believe in.  Listen to everything.  Mull it over and like a great buffet table set with lots of different foods, choose the ones that seem best for you, actually I will leave you this article about babyfood that it might help you. 

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Fatherhood has changed who I am, my relationship with Stefan has made me want to help all children realise their dreams. This is something I have always been passionate about and it is because of this, I launched the Novak Djokovic Foundation back in 2007. The Foundation aims to allow children from disadvantaged communities to grow up, play and develop in stimulating, creative and safe settings, whilst learning to respect others and care for their environment.

Research and advancements in neuroscience have taught us that the earliest years of life present a critical, once-in-a-lifetime opportunity to shape children’s brain development. Parents are the ones who hold the largest stake in this process. Children’s health, happiness, wellbeing, ability to learn and even earning capacity as adults are influenced and even determined by their external environments and experiences in early childhood. The benefits of good parenting include better cognitive, social and emotional development. Research also suggests that when children positively interact with fathers in particular, they have better psychological health, self-esteem and life-satisfaction in the long-term.

The evidence started to make sense when I saw the direct effect that my actions, the environment I provide, the food I give, and all the quality moments I spend with Stefan have on his growth and development. Playing games, singing, reading, providing varied and nutritious meals, loving and nurturing Stefan means in the short-term he learns to laugh, feels joy, learns faster, imitates, and becomes more creative and imaginative. Knowing that the rewards of these relatively simple actions are going to be life-changing for him, makes every moment I spend with him even more important.

Despite all this concrete evidence, there is still a significant lack of support, especially for fathers. Parents across the world should feel empowered to take a stand against the barriers – such as societal or cultural stereotypes – preventing them spending precious moments with their children. The responsibility lies with all of us, businesses and governments included, to support parents and caregivers in their communities with the time, resources and information they need. By breaking down these barriers, all fathers, and mothers will have the opportunity to give their children a better chance of reaching their optimal health, happiness and learning ability.

This Father’s Day, let’s get behind UNICEF’s #EarlyMomentsMatter campaign to celebrate fatherhood and all the super dads out there striving to make a difference. And let’s make a promise to help encourage and support fathers to help them shape their children’s lives for the better. We need action from scientists, doctors, nurses and community health workers to expand the services they offer to families, and broaden the lens beyond health to include all of the different factors that together help shape and define young brains. We need action from those who hold the greatest stake in children’s development – parents and caregivers – to build an enriching an environment free from shouting and free from violence. An environment where caregivers use every opportunity they can to pay loving attention to their babies, or to read or sing whenever the moment arises. Because these early moments matter more than any others.

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